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So you want to meet and date sexy strippers from your local strip club. Preferably big booty strippers, so I'm gonna break down the best way to handle this potentially scary situation. Remember all women are looking for love, even strippers, and from my experience dealing with exotic dancers, and hearing their stories, I can tell you many definitely date customers. And a few I know have even married them.
First you have to be open minded. Don't think that all strippers are hoes and sluts. You have to understand that women start stripping for various reasons. Some want to get extra money to pay for school. Some may have had difficult financial situations in their past which forced them down this path. Others may just love dancing and entertaining people and are not really doing it for the money. They are entertainers at heart. So please don't be judgemental of strippers, they all come from different walks of life.
Dating Strippers - The Basics
Lets get down to basics, you can call this "Women 101." You have to really know what you are getting yourself into dating strippers. Lets face facts, most women need a lot of attention, and many strippers need a lot more. On top of that, you must be comfortable with your stripper girlfriend being admired and gawked at whenever and wherever she works. Plus a lot of strippers like to dress sexy even when they are off work, so if you cannot handle being with a women who is gonna get lots of attention, then perhaps dating strippers in not for you. This fact cannot be overstated. If you really can't handle other men looking at your chick, say for instance, when she is holding your hand, then you have got to forget about dating strippers. If you think you can handle that, then keep reading.
It seems obvious, but find a good strip club to go to. Check out our Strip Club List, if you need some help looking for big booty strippers. Most clubs have a variety of women working every night, usually 10 to 40, depending on the size of the venue. Of course your chances are better at the larger strip clubs simply because they have more women working.
Get your gear right. Strippers are very observant. After all, part of their job is to size up potential customers to see who looks broke and to see who may have some cash to spend. So if your clothing game is weak, you might wanna fall back until you invest in some fashionable clothes. If your gear is tight, keep reading.
You should get to the strip club as early as possible. Why? Simply stated there is way less competition from other men. There will be plenty of dancers and very few customers which will present you with a better opportunity to start conversations with the strippers that you like. Don't be afraid, just be nice. Say something pleasant. Compliment them on their outfit, how great they smell, their hair, or on their choice of accessories. Don't compliment them on their ass and tits because they hear them raunchy comments all day every day. Ask them about themselves and what they like to do for fun, how long have they been working there, what's their favorite music, movies, types of foods, etc.
How To Tip Her - Do's and Don'ts
Once you have a favorite it's important to tip her when she is dancing on stage. However, don't do anything lewd by putting money in her g-string or trying to squeeze her ass. Just drop your tips on the stage where she is dancing and make sure she is watching you do this. If you start touching her while she is dancing on stage you will just come across like any other customer in the strip club. Remember, women always like to feel special, you have to separate yourself from the masses and be different. So don't even think about getting a lap dance from her, or from any other dancers in the club. If you do, you will loose whatever advantage you have from treating her special. Just remember, you initiating physical contact is a no no. Of course she can touch you however she pleases. LOL. Most dancers realize when they physically touch men it usually leads to more tips, so don't be surprised when she touches you.
Now at some point you need to plan your exit strategy. Let her know that you enjoyed meeting her and hopefully you will see her again the next time you visit the club. Be a gentlemen and shake her hand, and say good night. With several visits, eventually you will have built up enough rapport and charisma to take it to the next level.
Asking Her Out
Now the thought of asking her out my have you stressed out or anxious, but like anything in life, there is always the optimal time to make a decision. 3 or 4 visits to the club is usually enough before both you should be comfy. Of course remember, dudes ask her out every night, so there is no need to be scared about it. Hopefully your conversation was good enough, and she is interested in seeing you outside the club.
Just be direct, tell her you would like to take her out to dinner or to the movies. Don't say anything regarding sex or getting laid. Most strippers get hit up for sex all the time, remember your goal is to be different. Ask her for her number or her card and give her your card if you have one. If you are successful wait no more that 12 to 24 hours to send her a text or call her. Then setup a nice dinner date, a movie date or some other type of date based on the conversation you've already had with her. And of course let her know that you are paying! No point in trying to be cheap. Like I said before, women like to be treated like they are special.
Now of course there is a chance she may not be interested in you. There can be many reasons for this, like she may already have a boyfriend, she is not interested in dating ANYONE at this time, or she just may not find you appealing. But like they say with the lottery, you have to be in it to win it. If she turns you down, just accept it and keep it moving.
Important Last Points
Of course if she says yes, you have to remember a few key things. She is a stripper and there is no point in trying to stop her from being one. This is a classic mistake that many men make when dating strippers. They want them to immediately give up that stripper life. Which always leads to conflict and the eventual premature breakup. Also don't be paranoid. You are finally dating a fine woman, and you can't trust her. SMH. Every time she gets a text you imagine it's some other dude from the club trying to have sex with your chick. My advice, you can only control what you can control. And controlling other human beings is not possible. So just kick back, relax and enjoy the ride.
Take it from my experience, because yes I have successfully dated strippers, and because at the end of the day, strippers are people too.
It took a while for me to bring back the Black Strip Club List but I had some down time this week and was able to set it up. The old list was text only with a few hyperlinks. The new list is an entire website, and each club has it's own web page with links to their website and social media pages. We even have feeds from their Instagram accounts that update daily, so you can know what's poppin at any club. Just looking at their feeds will make you wanna hit the strip club tonite LOL.
While putting the Black Strip Club Listtogether I learned a few things. Here are the 10 top ten things I learned about Black strip clubs and their promotion.
1. In 2017 Websites Are Optional: Many Black strip clubs don't have websites, they strictly operate on social media platforms like Facebook and Instagram. A few actually had no website or social media presence. Seems insane but it's true.
2. Twitter Is Dead: Seems like a lot Black strip clubs used to have Twitter accounts but just stopped updating them within the last 2 years. It's ironic because Twitter is the one social media site that lets you post X rated material.
3. Instagram is KING: Instagram is the #1 social media platform for Black strip clubs. Probably because of it's simplicity. And it's so easy to post sexy pics of strippers and promotional flyers. Which is why we added Instagram feeds from most of the strip clubs on the site. These feeds update daily and automatically.
4. NYC Is the MECCA For Black Strip Clubs: Yep, people always talking about ATL is number one, but NYC strip clubs still have the best variety of women, Black and Latina. Though it can be argued that the Dominican women have taken over NYC. LOL. And depending on your point of view, ain't Dominicans Black?? Hmmmm. Atlanta is definitely #2.
5. Google Makes Research Easy: Last time I did this list it was around year 2000. I was using Yahoo Search and I was guessing at what strip clubs catered to a Black crowd. In 2017 just type Black Strip Clubs into Google plus the name of the location and Google's search algorithm spits out some pretty damn good results but it's not perfect. Which leads me to point six....
6. Humans Still Matter: After attempting to link up with theporndude.com who gets 22 million visitors a month I realized that even though Google is GOD, humans still matter. Only a human can pick the best of the best and arrange a website in a simple but effective manner that people wanna see and use. And thus get 22M visitors a month. DAMN.The irony here is that this is EXACTLY what the Yahoo Directory used to offer. Every website was listed and categorized by humans. When i first got listed in the Yahoo Directory back in 1998 for NudeBlackDancers.com I actually yelled out YAHOO!!!
7. I'm NOT a Graphic Artist, BUT My Header Still Looks Nice:
I was actually gonna pay someone to design it, but then again I was like, how hard can this be. LOL.
8. Many States With NO Black Strip Clubs: Alaska, Iowa, Idaho, Maine, Nebraska, Utah and many others. Not really a shocker because a lot of Black folks don't live in these states.
9. Just a Few Strip Clubs With Lots of Followers on Instagram: Just a few strip clubs, mostly based in NYC had over 100K followers on IG. This was surprising. I just assumed strip clubs everywhere had over 100K followers. Which is also why I said NYC is the Mecca for strip clubs.
10. This List is NOT Complete: As soon as I finished the list, I discovered a hot strip club in California that I missed. Cali is huge they must have more than the 2 strip clubs I've got listed.
Well it's that time of the year again to drop a new set of DVD's. As yall know 2017 is the final year for new DVD releases from Chocolate Models. We are moving on from this obsolete format. But until December 31, 2017 we are gonna keep the hits coming.
I don't like to think about the glory years, but had I found Strella Kat 7 or 8 years ago, that would of been an easy 2000 DVD's sold. I was just telling my fellow webmaster over at SexyAssLadies.com that I would be lucky to sell 200 copies of the new Strella Kat DVD. But hey, that's the current reality we live in.
It's great in a way, because now I can totally focus on Internet promotion which is something I've never really done. Some of yall may think that ludicrous, that I've been promoting hard online for years. But that's nonsense, other than a few Twitter updates, a few posts on Instagram and my Tumblr blog, I haven't done anything. Some might say it's miraculous we are getting 12K visitors daily, on a site that updates once a month. Well we do have good content, but what would happen if we updated daily?? We'll we are about to find out. LOL.
So back to the new DVD releases. Here's are a few thoughts on each one.
CM Hunnies DVD #21 FeaturingStrella Kat- I luv Strella Kat, she is so easy to work with I could shoot her forever. We have already shot 30 videos, and we are supposed to do more before she goes on vacation to her homeland, Dominican Republic. If you ever see her in public, just say hi because she is sweet like candy.
CM Hunnies DVD #22 Featuring Maserati XXX - Well Maserati XXX has the best all natural tits of all time so there is no way anyone could not wanna see this DVD. It's an instant classic.
CM Hunnies DVD #23 Featuring Jean - The fans love Jean so I'm trying to drop the rest of her DVD material before the end of 2017 and it''s too late. This DVD only features Jean on the dance stage. I heard from a random fan that he saw Jean in NYC recently and she not only stopped to talk with him, they rolled up a blunt and smoked some weed! Damn, Jean is cool as fuck.
CM Hunnies DVD #24 Featuring Muneca - Yes, Muneca aka Doll Iz Amazing, was more than just model to me, we developed a friendship. I think I luv that girl. So if you want to know why I've got so many videos of her, BANG, that's the reason. It's one of the industry's best kept secrets... When you see a photographer shooting a model a lot, maybe more than he should, there may be more going on than just the shoots. LOL.
CM Hunnies DVD #25 Featuring Rosee Divine & Tammy Love - I didn't have enough footage for 1 whole DVD for either of them, so I thought it would be best for the two super pawgs of Chocolate Models to join forces as one. Plus after the rapper Drake and Rosee Divine on a date story broke worldwide, I figured I might as well exploit that buzz too.